自己的幸福要自己追寻

参加了几个旧同学的喜宴，看着他们幸福的表情，哦，找寻“幸福”真的很简单，并不是想象中的难。

而我的幸福是什么？每个人要求的幸福不一样。我的幸福却很模糊。工作，生活，家人，呵呵，那是我拥有的幸福。找个可以一起分享一切的另一半，就会更幸福吧 :)

我问：他们怎样断定那就是他们要的另一半，他们所追寻的生活？婚姻只是一个开始。真的需要勇气才能做这样的决定吧！

我告诉自己：幸福还真不是自动降临的啊。还真的需要去追求，然后付出努力和时间。
 我看啊，那难可能就是捆着自己的心魔吧。

哦 我还是继续听我的王菲，看我的败犬，弹我的第二届星光大道金曲。

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