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还有两个星期，我们就要签字结婚了。可是我还是很怀疑，为什么他要和我结婚。他说他爱我不能让我离开;他说有很多原因其中一个是他想戴那个我们一起买的戒指;另一个是他想向所有人大声说他已婚，说我是他的老婆。 我想这么多，他说:不要担心，不要想太多，所有的事都会好的。 除了工作，他把所有的时间都给了我。 每次都把我爱吃的好吃的留给我，好让我多吃一些。我生气了伤心了都逗我笑。知道我为了他的别扭而不开心，他把不开心的事都看开了。 什么事都对我多忍让，有时他被我弄得哭笑不得-我挑战着他的极限，他都一一接受了。 吵架时，从来都不对我大小声，只有我一个人大声囔囔起来。也只有我会唠叨，最近还长后悔做了的事，为了这些，他还善用伎俩转移我的注意力让我开心起来。 我问为什么，那些问题他都一一回答了。。 还能有什么疑问呢。 P/s: 我们结婚了。他是我最温柔的老公。

夫复何求呢? 能吃到想吃的, 能做想做的, 能和最爱的家人朋友一起度过,  分享生活的喜悦忧愁, 还有 无尽的支持祝福和鼓励 ～ 当你怀疑幸福在哪 里？你可能就已经活在 当中！！

最近一直在思考感情上的事。到底自己怎么了？如果可以找到一个一起分享的人，那有多好啊！一个可以让我担心和关心的人。哈，我吃不完的可以给他，还可以煮难吃的食物和他一起吃。他有困难，我希望我的拥抱可以给他力量。我的爱让他温暖。 不要想如果那个人的存在，他可以带我去做什么，或怎样怎样。我想要的，想做的就应该自己去做吧！那才是爱自己的表现。爱一个人，就是想要付出吧 - 但是不要要求他也给我同样的关注和爱。因为我有能力爱自己，所以才可以爱他。

It has been a tradition for my family to eat reunion lunch at my maternal grandpa's house and then a home-cook dinner by my mum at home. I decided to do something different this year. On the day before (29th of lunar calendar), as usual, I went to night market with my mother. My mother bought the ingredients for the dishes and I helped carrying them, but, I paid more attention on what, how and why she bought the ingredients. I asked too. Haha trying to learn some life skills from her. On the reunion day, while my mum cooked, I sneaked into kitchen and asked her permission to let me trying on... Guess what! Cooking Chinese Food!! (Kitchen is my mum's territory. I don't usually step in because my poor skills will earn her "anger" credit :p I make sandwiches and pasta - it is too far easy) I also communicated with her on how I like to learn cooking :) It works. It was just amazing that my mum listened and I learned few new dishes (And my two sisters didn't...

当初只是伴 不曾想过一起 他们都说我们会 如果你爱上我 我真的不知道怎么办 不爱 我们都很好 爱了 谁是谁牵绊 不爱 让我知道 爱了 我该怎么办 只好 不爱了

不经意的 又想起他送的一颗星星 星星还在 却不在他的心 回家的路上 一直想要让泪掉下 有多么不舍得 那星星 还是要放开 就只有你 让我想起这颗星星 真空状态下 我会让星星离开 我会完全放下 让星星乘光速离去

My first impression on Beijing is the strong wind. I hardly made my steps in such " violent " wind. My friends and I were fighting with the wind  while walking back to our apartment. If we are lucky enough to be on the same direction of where the wind blow to, gagagaga, imagine, we walk faster than usual with its help. The weather in Beijing is unpredictable, sunny and foggy, sunny and windy, cloudy and windy................. a lot of varieties ... hmnnnn Beijing is awesome. For someone like me, who has grown up and live in the city and desired on something which is more cultural, traditional and natural, Beijing is just my place. It is modern and old. The public transport system, subway and buses are very well connected. Cheap and efficient. You will never wait for more than 15 minutes or wait endlessly. Most foreigners might find the city not friendly as the people can't speak well English. (maybe they don't need to, btw most of the tourists are Chinese- from Ch...

突然接到一个很久没联络的朋友的电话。谈了一阵，想起很多年前，我曾经和他一起讨论过“爱”。那时，我常常问：爱是什么？经过一番争辩，我们都赞成爱和喜欢不同。哈哈哈，好简单的结论。 经过很多年的思考，爱有很多种。父母，孩子，姐妹，朋友之间的也可以是爱。定义广了，也更模糊。 今天有人给了我爱的定义。他说，他不能定义爱，但他能定义（确定)他爱的人。他以他爱的人来诠释爱。

1) It was my 5th day at Bali. The conference was great. It gave me some times to think about the project that I am currently handling and some ideas on where the project should direct to and how to work on it. I couldn't have done that if I continue to stay at the office. Too much works and I was doing for the sake of finishing it. 2) I met an American lady at the conference when waiting bus at the drop-off place. Yeah, another American lady... She is lovely and talkative. She works at Hanoi, Vietnam and has been working there for more than 10 years. She told me a lot about her life, from internship at Fiji, studying at Uni Hawaii, working at Thailand, Switzerland, so on ...... and how she met her husband. She said a lady like her, who is so independent and mobilize, would not think of marriage or meeting a guy. Unexpected, she met her husband at Vietnam, who was working there too. The most wonderful part was that her husband came from the same area as she was. Just few years ago,...

最近看了几套Oscar入选电影，包括7pounds，changeling和benjamin button。 changeling 那个母亲非常坚强，直到最后都不放弃相信她的孩子还活着。 7pounds 不敢相信一个前途光明的人，竟然为了一个错误，内疚而用身体作出补偿。然后遇见，再重新爱上，最后牺牲自己让所爱的人恢复自由。剧情虽然老土，可是拍摄手法严肃。 不仅让你想起每天忙忙碌碌到底为了什么，当失去所爱的人，你要用什么去补偿内心的失落呢。和他一般勇敢地用自己的器官补偿吗？用时间去调查你要帮助的人是不是好人？好人的标准是什么？你又怎样断定这个好人在不久的将来不会像你一般犯错呢？ 在你学会珍惜的时候，你才会碰见最爱的人吧。 Benjamin button 时间会流逝，外貌会改变。只有爱一个人的灵魂，才能永恒。灵魂和一个人的性情是否相联？现代的人知道怎样爱一个人的灵魂吗？

Dear, I like Gustav Klimt so much. Met him in the secession building at Vienna, Austria .... love his paintings especially The Kiss and Beethoven Frieze. I feel love in The Kiss......